Joe Incitti Jr., age 80, passed away Friday, September 15, 2023, from pancreatic cancer. Joe was born in Sopris, Colorado on May 2, 1943, to Joseph and Jenny Incitti.
He is survived by his wife of 51 years, Shirley Incitti; his daughter Sherri (Anthony Trujillo) of Trinidad; his son Mario (Carol) Incitti of Ft. Collins. Also 5 grandchildren Carter Chacon, Isabella Chacon, Taylor Trujillo, Scarlett Incitti, and Dawson Incitti. The brothers are Sam Incitti of Trinidad and Dominic (Cathy) Incitti of Colorado Springs. Other surviving family include sisters-in-law, numerous nieces, great-nieces, nephews, and great-nephews.
Joe attended school in Sopris, graduating from Lincoln High School in 1961. He then enrolled in Building Trades at TSJC, graduating in 1963. Joe was then drafted into the Army and served 2 years as a Military Police in Virginia. Upon his return, he was employed as a heavy equipment operator by the City of Trinidad, retiring in 2005.
Joe and his wife also ran a successful business known as JuJo’s Pub. This kept him busy for 20 years creating numerous memories and friends along the way. Joe was well-known for his quick wit and keeping a tight rein on JuJo’s staff and clientele.
In his free time, Joe enjoyed time with family, especially his 5 grandkids who all called him “Papa.” There exists no tighter family unit than the Incitti clan. He loved each and every one in his own special way.
Winemaking with his brothers, close friends, and oldest grandson was another favorite. His green thumb with yard work was evident by simply driving by his house. He shall be missed.
Preceded in death were Joe’s parents, two sisters; Mary Jane Incitti and Angie Cunico, two brothers; Corky Incitti and Angelo (Spraggs) Incitti. Also, his beloved nephews, Ron Incitti and John Cunico.
Visitation will be on Monday, September 25, 2023, from 3:00-6:00pm at Comi Funeral Home. A service of remembrance will be held on Tuesday, September 26, 2023, at 10:00 a.m. at Holy Trinity Church followed by interment at Trinidad Catholic Cemetery.
Pallbearers are Joe’s nephews: John, Dean, Lawrence, Peter, Patrick, and Jubal.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the American Cancer Society or a charity of your choice.
Joe and Shirley, I had to be reminded of the fact that I was the priest at your wedding on April 8, 1972. We celebrated at Mt. Carmel church and renewed our friendship with each other, a friendship that began back in Sopris in 1968. Joe, you weren’t the tallest guy in the world, but your voice and your presence, wherever it was, caused the room to take notice. I imagine that the same thing is happening in the heavenly rooms that you come into. Much peace to you. Pray for us.
The Incitti family have been our good friends for a long time going back to our father Larry and Joe’s father, Joe.
We have many memories of the times we spent together eating and laughing and having a good time. I am very sorry for Joe’s death and send his family my heart felt condolences. He was such a fun loving man.
With love,
Cheryl Gay Gatti