by Colette M. Armijo
RATON — The board of directors, advisory board, and staff of Alternatives to Violence (ATV) joined local religious leaders and well-wishers at Saturday’s Candlelight Vigil. Held at the Schuler Theatre, this annual event continues to be a wonderful opportunity for members of the public to get a deeper insight into the work that organizations such as ATV do for the community.
This year’s keynote speaker hailed from Denver, Colorado. Having spent a significant portion of her life in New Mexico, Darlene Brace-Torres summarized her past and what it was like to be a child victim within a home filled with domestic violence. She shared enough about her personal experience to connect with the audience while not being over exposed or seeking sympathy. She talked about how her past led her to be an advocate for victims of domestic violence.
She also engaged the audience by getting their feedback and input into situations. She closed by pointing out simple ways in which every citizen can support and guide someone they encounter who is dealing with domestic violence. Her advice is summarized by the acronym LOVES: Listen, Offer resources, Validate them as a person, Empower them, and Safety first. The process is easy to remember and easy to do.
The audience was then delighted by the country band The Wannabes. The event continued outside the Schuler with the balloon release, symbolizing the liberation of victims when they seek help to regain positivity and respect in their lives. Statics show that ATV has been having fewer repeat cases, proving that Colfax and Union counties are benefitting from the efforts of this noble organization and the support of the community.
